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Monday, December 12, 2011

[20111210] Melodies of Chirstmas!!! Officially Ended!!!


Guess what? it actually happened on that night of 10th of December! All my fellow members done their best on that night, our effort of suffering in practising were not wasted! I still able hardly to remember the joy and fun having that day with everyone. That unique moment meant lots to all of us, our relationship do increase due to this great event. THANKS a lot to our Preziiii and V.Preziiii, Rachel and Cathlyn respectively. Really thanks and appreciate the effort they paid, spent and scarified.

So let me describe how was that night we spent together. Before the performance start, everyone preparing to dress up, some busying practising back the songs that we need to be perform, some cam whoring! LOL! Some of them nervous, some not.. like me? haha! some praying (thats me~), anyway... everyone just wanna to be well prepared to show the best they got!

but before that, actually we planned to give those members that are going to US next year a surprise! So audrey planned to sing a song of "Time to Say Goodbye" for all of the flying members~ actually that song, the second verse should be all of the members sing without audrey, but end up i duet with her LOL! dont ask me whether im nervous or not, cause i wont! just that.... the starting is nice (cause she started first) than when the second verse came in... i screw and ruin up the song, i sang wrongly the rhythm and causing burst of laughing in the hall!!! such a shame.. (cause i do not know the beginning of the song well!) But no worry, thanks to audrey cover it up for me :) Thankiuuuu~~ than the chorus and ending~~~ thanks to myself i sang it perfectly!!! kakakkaa

okay, in my imagination... i imagined that after the chorus than only Cathlyn will cry~~ but!!!!! she burst out sobbing and crying at the beginning of the song.. owh.... poor girl :(
actually.. i know that feeling.. hmm.. leaving and stuff.. argg!!
AND JIREH!! Dont pretend and gave reasons and excuses!! you obviously CRIED!!!

Really Really Really thanks a lot to all members for the hardwork and appreciated their effort! (why sounds like im de prezii? o.O)
I will miss you all my dear members that are flying next year!!!!! <3 <3 <3
I just cant stopping miss-ing all the moment we spend together :(


Melodies of Christmas!! Our first iChoir Debut!!!

Tuesday, November 29, 2011

guess what?! I'm BACK!!!! for a post -_-

geez.. kinda long didn't come here for a post... my blog going to get rusty soon.

anyway, here's what happening to me throughout this semester of my second year degree (aka walking through gate of hell).

first and foremost, i joined Choir club in my college! funny right? lots of my friend terrified when they knew this unbelievably news. in the very beginning, that's a girl name esther (my friend o.o) pulled me into Choir with numerous excuses and reasons... LOL! and that's one of the matched i lose to a girl in my life. but than, something changed... my heart and passion changed, i can't believed i do like Choir anyway. not the sense of loving it but passion! singing those funky songs with sexay and handsum's mates! the fun part after i realised it is.... i don't even knew what i'm singing!!! LOL.. that's a joke... =3=

and....... UOW society finally approve by our very..... hmm... who was the one approve? actually.. IDK! but the problem is... we get the full opportunity to handle our very uni's club, and we name it as W@I. cool right? Wollongong @ INTI!!!! omgosh... now idk what to do with that club... =\ oh well... although im the founder.. but i'll leave all the stuff to my lovely president, Jag...

besides, assignments and stuffs were harder right now in this semester. sleepless night, worrying, uncertainty and lots of weird emotion coming out. i really don't know what to do with it, only can pray for the lecturers not to be cruel to gave us toughed questions in the final. but who knows, my miracle do come true with the opposite side. our "Kind" lecturer gave us a nice and fine questions with a IKUDK smile on his/her face, thats nice right? :) (FYL: IKUDK: I Know U Don't Know)   in the end, all fu*k up... death...

so... even my stressful semester over right now... still have to rush up and finished up all these "re-many-ing" assessments! if not... ready to get fail... :(

moreover i got lots of company to find me for intern ship.. i really do like some of the offer there, but well... human do love penny right? i fu*k up those intern ships and took a 14 days promoter that able to earn 2 times more than the intern ship!!!!

guess this is what i do between the beginning and the ending of this semester. anyway, i guess my mind just droved crazy cause of the workload and stuff. and now is 5:51am!!! nearly 6am!!!
ima gonna sleep.. tml needa wake up early to continue on my assignment...

my blessed always will be there whenever u need but dont miss me!
nighty night~

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

浪漫的道歉 (转帖)

婚後,妻子還是和談戀愛時一樣,霸道蠻橫不講理。


這天夫婦倆本是說好一起去會朋友的,可走到半路妻子又不講理地喝斥起老公來,老公平時都是言聽計從的,可這次不知怎麼,竟來了牛脾氣, 一扭頭,他回家不去了,頭一次把妻子丟在馬路上,妻子當時氣得眼淚都快流出來了,但不能認輸,她只有賭氣地單刀赴會了。


晚上十一點鐘妻子回家,見房裏燈都關了,心想老公是睡著了,便沒有按鈴,掏鑰匙開門時,發現門上貼著紙條,上寫:你必須向我道歉!


妻子憤憤地想,我還沒有找你算帳呢!


進屋後開燈關門,發現門後又貼著一紙條,上寫:或者把我皮鞋擦亮也行。


妻子罵道,呸!我給你擦個屁。


換鞋時發現,她的拖鞋上又有一個紙條,上寫:呸,擦個屁!


妻子感到好笑,她心想,要我道歉,我都要一個星期不理你了,你心裏有數點好不好。


妻子去洗漱,口杯上又有一個紙條,上寫:如果你不知道該怎樣向我道歉的話,書桌上有提示。


妻子急忙跑到書桌旁,只見桌上放著半頁紙,正面寫著:把背面的話對我大聲念兩遍就行了。


翻到背面,見上面貼著一張報紙上撕下來的廣告,廣告詞是這樣寫的「做女人,每個月都幾天心煩的日子......」


妻子又想笑,他以為是我"好事"來了,心煩才對他發脾氣的?


幹嘛不說我更年期到了,那樣豈不是更好下臺階,可笑。


妻子的氣消了一多半。


洗漱完後,妻子上床,見老公扭頭在一邊睡著了,她也不理他, 打開床頭燈想看幾頁書再睡,這是她多年來的習慣。


打開書,裏面又有一個紙條,上寫:我知道你心裏已經很難過了,你覺得對不住我,有點難過了就行,也不必自責了。


其實我也該檢討,要不是我發現馬路對面表哥他們正想看我的笑話,我是不會跟你作對的,男人嘛,除了在外人面前要點面子外,誰會沒事跟自己老婆過不去呀。


妻子心裏一陣發熱,覺得自己是有點過分了,對不住老公,便雙手抱著他的頭,扳過臉來,卻發現老公臉頰上還寫著兩個大字「親我。」

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

如果長得不好,那就讓自己有才氣

1、如果長得不好,那就讓自己有才氣;如果才氣也沒有,那就總是面帶微笑。
2、氣質是關鍵。如果你追不上時尚,也不夠新潮,那麼最好還保持純樸自然的風格。
3、與別人握手時,可以多捏一會兒,同時真誠而自然地看著對方的眼睛。
4、不必什麼都用“我”作主語。
5、不要向朋友借錢。
6、不要“逼”客人看你的家庭相冊。
7、與別人打的時,最好搶先坐在司機旁邊。
8、堅持在背後多說別人的好話,不必擔心這些好話傳不到當事人的耳朵裡。

9、有人在你面前說某人的壞話時,你只微笑。
10、開自己的轎車出行,不要特地停下來和一個騎自行車的同事打招呼,人家會以為你在故意炫耀。
11、同事生病時,去探望他,很自然的坐在他的病床上,回家後再認真洗手。
12、過去的事,不要讓人都知道。
13、尊敬不喜歡你的人。
14、對事不對人;或對事無情,對人要有情;或做人第一,做事第二。
15、自我批評總能能贏得信任,自我表揚則不然。
16、沒有什麼東西比圍觀者們更能提高你的保齡球的成績了,所以,平常不要吝惜你的喝彩聲。
17、在現實生活中,要懂得感恩,學會報恩。
18、榕樹上的八哥愛講話,只講不聽,結果亂成一團。要注意學會聆聽。
19、尊重傳達室裡的師傅及搞衛生的阿姨。
20、說話的時候,請記住常用“我們”開頭。
21、為每一位上台唱歌的人鼓掌。
22、有時要明知故問:你的鑽戒很貴吧?有時,即使想問也不能問,比如:女士,你多大了?
23、言多必失,人多的場合少說話。
24、把未出口的“不”改成“這需要時間”,“我盡力”,“我不確定”,“當我決定後,會給你打電話的”。
25、不要期望所有人都喜歡你,那是不可能的,讓大多數人喜歡就是成功的表現。
26、記住:自己要喜歡自己。
27、即使只有一個人喝彩,也要認真表演。
28.如果一個帖子值得一看,那麼你一定要回复,因為你的回復會給別人繼續前進的勇氣,會給人很大的激勵,同時也會讓人對你心存感激。 

如果有放不下的人就看看吧

一個苦者找到一個和尚傾訴他的心事。

他說:“我放不下一些事,放不下一些人。”

和尚說:“沒有什麼東西是放不下的。”

他說:“這些事和人我就偏偏放不下。”

和尚讓他拿著一個茶杯,然後就往裡面倒熱水,一直倒到水溢出來。

苦者被燙到馬上鬆開了手。

和尚說:“
這個世界上沒有什麼事是放不下的,痛了,你自然就會放下。

你可能覺得難過

因為無論你對他怎麼好他都不領情



他不是看不到他只是裝作看不到

或者他根本不想看到

你覺得自己很喜歡他

甚至覺得再沒有一個人可以像你那麼喜歡他

你用盡全力對他好

把他看的比自己還重要

有什麼事情第一個就想到他

聯繫不到他的時候你擔心他擔心的快瘋了

然而你有沒有想過

這並不在你的責任範圍

而且很有可能他是在躲著你

他受不了你對他那麼好

不要一直發短信給他

不要一直找他

你也許只是想找他說說話

你覺得那很正常不算苛求

但是也許他並不這麼想

記住你的想法不代表他的想法

你是真的不求回報的在喜歡他嗎

你捫心自問一下

你確定不用他回報什麼嗎

那為什麼你會難過

若是真的一無所求

你又怎麼會覺​​得難過呢

所以別覺得你那麼愛他是偉大的

也許她根本不在乎你怎麼為他付出

有時候你給他的愛或許是種負擔

這種負擔只會讓他更加想遠離你

因為他不想虧欠你

別事事為他擔心為他張羅

你覺得他沒有你不行

你覺得別人做不到你那麼完善

但是你要清楚

你不是他要的那個人

你做的再完善也敵不過人家不做

那個位置本來就不是你的

你何必硬要擠上去呢

你說道理你都懂只是你做不好

喜歡他不是你的錯

想關心他不是你的錯

控制不住自己不是你的錯

但是那是你的方式

人家不一定就能接受你這種所謂無私的愛

所以如果你喜歡他他不喜歡你

那麼就請你默默的

別試圖讓他知道

就算你會難過甚至難過的流淚

就請你默默的

就算是逼自己也好

一定要忍著


傻孩子。

忘了吧。所有你留戀的。你回憶的。你擁有過的。

那些。都已是記憶。

缺失並不可怕。

可怕的,是無法面對。


傻孩子。

你無法輕易忘記放棄。是因為你付出過。

付出了,她就會像柱子一樣紮根在心。

不要刻意去逃避。刻意忘記。那隻會讓你更痛苦。

繞開這個柱子。尋找未來的幸福生活吧。

那裡,有你的理想。


傻孩子。

開始新的習慣吧。

習慣,每天一個人生活。

習慣。一個人過生日。一個人行走。

習慣。走過熟悉的路。面對熟悉的景。

你逃不掉。逃不掉的。

那麼,就勇敢面對。現實。

現實是。一切。畫上了句點。


傻孩子。

勇敢看著鏡子中的自己吧。

這個悲傷軟弱滿面憔悴的自己。

這也是你。成長中的你。

這個你。正在逐漸死去。

新的你。即將重生。

找尋你的路,你的未來。

你知道的,所有的浩劫。都是成長的祭奠。

做最好的自己。即使。一個人。


傻孩子。

好,好。盡情發洩吧。

剝開自己的心,用文字,用聲音,用所有能發洩的方式。

洩完了。就要振作。

看吧,你失去的。其實微不足道。

還有那麼多人關心著你。以不同的方式。

所以,你並不孤獨。

正是這樣的失去。讓你看清現在所擁有的幸福。


傻孩子。

別哭,別再哭。

不值得。真的。不值得了。

把過去塵封吧。別委屈。別不甘心。別不接受。

開始新的旅程吧。去遇見新的風景。新的際遇。

做你該做的事吧。有很多事。等待著你完成呢。

傻孩子。

生活褪去了曾有的顏色。暫時寧靜。

別沉淪在這片寧靜裡。那會毀掉你。

你要明白,雖然殘忍,但這個決定。足夠正確。

現在的生活,不是你想要的。

為了你的理想,你必須學會適時放棄。

給對方最好的關懷。就是。變的更好,更強大,更幸福。

現在我對你很好,很好,很好,你不需要,你無所謂,你不在乎,你不珍惜。

當某天,你被傷害,想起我,那時的我再也做不到像現在這樣一如既往,不顧一切的對你好了。

因為那時的我,已經將你放低。。

原來,放低一個人,最後是被對方逼出來的

Friday, September 9, 2011

Hiyah~~!!

I'm back guys! Just for a post? i guess hahaha!!

hmm, i dont know how long ago is my last post, but is okay! life is hard, and laziness!! so seldom logon into my blog and post something from my life..

between the last post till this current post, i went to penang, singapore for my vacation! totally bankrupt! now i facing financial problem, if someone here able to spare or donate me some peny. i would be very thankful! ^ ^

life do face obstacle right? stress, college's work, hard work on emotion, and money.. is this the burden of a student?! what the  heck..!

so what happen lately here when im gone? everyone fine? looking good? feeling good? smell good +_+?! haha

anyway peace guys! oh yeah.. if any of you guys watch korean variety show? kang woo dong retire, thats sad... cant see him anymore in his variety show =(

anyway.. gonna chill~ chiaoz~

Wednesday, February 2, 2011

七個對不起,請及早學會珍惜[分享]

男孩和女孩從小就認識,男孩經常約女孩一起去村外的池塘邊捉小蝦,每次男孩總是滿載而歸,女孩卻是兩手空空,女孩失落的含著眼淚,獨自一個人回到家,然後悶悶不樂。

晚飯前,男孩敲響女孩家的門,女孩一見是男孩,扭頭就走,男孩追上前,對女孩說:『對不起,我把妳的蝦都捉走了,我把牠們養在小魚缸裡,送給妳。』

女孩眉頭一鬆,笑了,就這樣反覆著他們純純的童年,轉眼,他們各自成長著。

——這是純純的『對不起』。

男孩總是喜歡戲弄女孩,經常把女孩逗到哭,然後又哄女孩到她笑為止,直到長大後,也是如此。

男孩經常偷偷把女孩的自行車輪胎的氣放掉,然後躲在遠處,看女孩著急的不知如何是好,然後等著女孩撥通他的手機,破口大罵他的無聊行為,可是男孩依舊那麼喜歡這樣的女孩。

他從遠處走來,為女孩推著那輛沒了氣的自行車,任由女孩在一旁發牢騷,男孩卻暗自竊喜,然後委屈的對女孩說:『對不起,我知道錯了。』

隨即,女孩便會安靜下來,告訴男孩下次不可以那樣,男孩點頭,於是,那時的他們每天都充滿著笑容。

——這是『對不起』的快樂。

大學畢業後,男孩和女孩各自有了工作,男孩的工作總是很忙,有時一個月都休息不到一次,而女孩抱怨男孩冷落了她,終於,他們有了第一次的吵架。

女孩委屈的哭起來,可是男孩卻很理直氣壯的告訴女孩:『這是為了我的工作。』這場冷戰持續了很久。終於,女孩還是忍不住,主動和男孩和好了。後來很多次男孩和女孩都因為這樣的小事而吵得不可開交,可每次,都是女孩先妥協。

那年,女孩生日,男孩答應女孩要給他過一個浪漫的生日,女孩欣喜不已,她在家精心打扮,等著男孩回來陪她渡過這個美妙的生日,這一等就是直到凌晨,女孩在睡夢中醒來,臉上掛著淚痕,男孩見到女孩,心疼地為女孩擦去臉龐的淚痕,說:『對不起,嫁給我好嗎?』於是男孩拿出一枚戒指。

——『對不起』也是一種承諾。

婚後,男孩的事業大有成就,經常有許多應酬,而女孩已經成為一個專職太太了,每天在家為男孩準備晚餐,把家裡收拾的乾乾淨淨,她經常去菜市場買回一些小蝦放在魚缸裡養著,男孩問她為什麼,女孩卻只是微微一笑。

慢慢地,男孩每次回家,身上總是充滿了不同的香水味道,而每次沒等女孩問,男孩就忙著解釋說是因為應酬太多。

女孩黯然,那時起,女孩不太愛說話了,也不像以前那麼開朗了,她開始喜歡成天呆在家裡,抱著枕頭看韓劇,然後隨著劇情哭泣,夜深時,就會瘋狂的大哭。

之後的日子,男孩回來時,身上的香水味只有一種味道了,女孩從來不問,可是男孩依舊說:『對不起,今天又去應酬了。』

——『對不起』,謊言的開始。 

漸漸地,男孩開始不回家,或總是在外出差,男孩的事業越來越好,身邊都是奉承的人,他每天都在別人的恭維下自豪地笑著,而女孩,幾乎不出門了,除了上超市買泡麵,和一些必要的日用品。

從前,女孩常會和男孩一起聊天,而現在,她孤身一人,身邊沒有一個可以說話的人,每次打電話問男孩什麼時候回家,男孩總是倉促的回答說:『對不起,我太忙了。』

女孩,失落的掛上電話,之後她再也沒有問男孩什麼時候會回家。

——『對不起』,成了敷衍的方式。

女孩學著電視上的樣子,開始打扮自己,她覺得男孩不回家,也許是看膩了她,於是她決定不再頹廢,自己的幸福應該靠自己爭取,而不是無謂的後退。

那天,女孩心血來潮,按照地址去了男孩工作的地方,那是女孩第一次去,也是唯一的一次。女孩按下電梯,來到這個男孩經常說忙的地方,她細細地觀察這個公司的每個角落、這裡的一切。終於,繞過長長的辦公走廊,她來到男孩的辦公室,輕輕地推開門......女孩愣住了,眼前看到的不是自己的丈夫,也不是經常弄壞她自行車的那個賊小子,更不是把蝦放在小魚缸裡的男孩,而是一個正在和別的女人做愛的男人。

那個女人坐在桌子上,發出微弱的呻吟聲,那個男人,仿佛山林裡餓極了的野獸......

許久,男孩才發現了女孩,男孩驚慌失措,忙把衣褲撿起來穿好。

可女孩,轉身離開了。

男孩飛奔出去,追著女孩,而大雨,正下著。

女孩不顧男孩的叫喊,只是往回家的方向跑,男孩在女孩後面大喊:『對不起,我還是愛妳的,對不起,我真的只愛妳。』可是女孩,始終沒有聽見。 

——因為這樣的『對不起』太傷人。

男孩一直都沒有找到女孩,女孩失蹤很久了。

男孩的世界一片黑暗,他無心工作、無心花天酒地,他想不到女孩可以去哪裡,因為女孩沒有朋友,她唯一的朋友就是男孩,男孩終日守著電話,手機24小時不關機,就怕錯過了女孩的電話,但這一等就是半年多。

快遞為男孩送來一個盒子。

男孩打開一看,裡面是許多河蝦的標本,有的在樹葉邊休息,有的在水草裡躲著,而旁邊放著一封信。

『我始終沒有勇氣再見到你,可能是我太懦弱,也或許是我根本不想見到你,我想這些日子你應該過得沒什麼兩樣吧!我很好,我學會了離開你怎麼讓自己繼續生活下去,我懂得怎樣賺錢養活自己,而不用每天等著你回家,為你燒一桌熱騰騰的飯菜,直到涼了也不見你的人,我的手機已經不用了,因為我已經不會再為你24小時的不關機,我懂得怎樣去愛惜自己,珍惜自己的本來應該美好的生活。

我想,我是可以忘記怎麼去愛你的。離婚協議書,就壓在魚缸的底下,你簽完字,按照地址寄過來就行了。對不起,我想我是真的累了。』

男孩按照地址找去,他滿心希望能夠再見到女孩,然後請女孩原諒,並且告訴女孩自己不能沒有她,可是打開門的卻是女孩的父親,而女孩就站在她父親的身後——那是女孩的遺像。

女孩的父親告訴男孩,女孩在寫完這封信後,就跳樓自殺了。

——原來『對不起』也可以是種結束。

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Aiks...

Aiks... feel like so long i didnt write anything to my blog jor =\
haha... recently so free and so busy ler..
busy.. is because helping people to edit pictures and create pictures for them.
free is because most of the time nothing to do... bored dao...
what video also watched fin jor...

Yesterday, 19th Jan...
Media announced that Kara's Jiyoung, SeungYeon, Nicole wanna leave DSP media...
haiz.... why ler...?! why wanna leave... just because of the little money.. and the non-reasonable activities and schedules...
but.. DSP media do put much effort to raise KARA until today into a good image...
and yet... they lawsuit DSP cause they didnt get what they actually get...
pity both company and KARA..
hope even 3 of them split up.. KARA's member still remain the same TT
So fast gonna reach CNY jor...
haiz... lazy to go back epoh ler..
idk la... always go back there.. nothing to do also geh..
go relative hse collect ang pao?
luckily now i got friends in my college who is from epoh =\

hope tomorrow is a peaceful and great day for me ~.~
Here one song i wanna intro =D

Ft Island - Don't Love (Me)
(MV is from After Love - Ft Island, a nice song also)

Although this song released very long time ago...
but still.. it is nice =D
haha... 

okay.. piss out now~
peace!~

Sunday, January 16, 2011

好男人...找不到女朋友的因素(轉貼)

壞男人往往臉皮厚,大膽,善於撒謊,不太受道德約束,花招詭計多,不負責任。
而這些特點恰恰擊中了女人的軟肋。

假設硬件條件相似的好男人和壞男人遇到同一個女人,壞男人的殺傷力要強出N倍。

首先,好男人的出手概率要小得多,因為好男人開始追求之前就要考慮負責任的問題,
所以不完全中意的不會去追,條件不成熟的目前不能追,對方已有男友的不能追,未來前景不看好(例:在不同城市)的不能追,限制極多。
而壞男人反正也沒打算負責任,只要對方有點姿色,或是觸手可得,一概先追了再說。

第二,好男人誠實,沒錢沒關係就實話實說,對女方的缺點也坦誠相告,往往讓女人很失望。
而壞男人隨便編兩個故事就可以顯得自己實力超群;對女人花言巧語又很容易讓她們心花怒放,認為找到了知己伯樂。
在這個浮躁的社會背景下,好男人多年的辛苦努力換來的成果多半還不如一個壞男人用3分鐘時間編出來的故事更能讓女人心動。

第三,好男人總想著尊重對方,不會找機會調戲非禮。而壞男人通過調笑,酒精,跳舞等方式隨時刺激女人的荷爾蒙,
一有機會就把對方佔為己有。女人一旦被調動起來,反而很快會愛上這個男人。壞男人一次調情的效果往往超過好男人默默的多次付出。

有些傻女人認為男人上了她就是愛上了她;更傻的女人認為一旦被男人上了,她就必須愛上這個男人。女人的本性中隱含著逆來順受的基因。

第四,好男人真心付出,把雙方的感情看得很重,心態容易不平衡,為一些小事和女友爭吵。
而壞男人心想:反正我不過是做一場遊戲,找點刺激罷了,哄哄她得了,生個什麼氣啊?心態更平和,反而顯得成熟個性好。

第五,壞男人的約會經驗通常比好男人多的多。參照第一條,壞男人一有機會就出手,即使不成功也積累了經驗,逐漸了解了女人的心理。
壞男人通過大量的實戰經驗在約會時把這些表面工作做得很好,而好男人卻懵然不知,被唰了都不明白為什麼,還以為是自己實力不夠。

第六,雙方發生爭執時,好男人自尊心,原則性強,不會輕易遷就對方,往往為些小事誰都不讓步,最後只能分手。而壞男人臉皮厚,認個錯比喝稀飯都容易,往往輕而易舉就能哄得對方回心轉意;當然,那是在他還沒有玩膩的時候,否則即使女方讓步他也能找出藉口分手,有時候女人反而會一再讓步,徹底淪為壞男人的玩物。

第七,好男人原則性強,循規蹈矩,往往顯得乏味。而壞男人一心追求刺激,變化多端,常常給女人以新鮮感。不知不覺中,女人就被壞男人迷惑住,控制住了。

第八,大部分女人對生活的期望值不現實(愛情小說,電影看多了的後果)。造成的後果是誠實的好男人達不到她們的期望值,只有壞男人才能編造出一個她們心目中的理想世界。

另外,對於多數女人來說,上床造成兩人關係的質變。佔有她身體的男人比起其他男人有太多的優勢(親密程度大大增強,對方無形之中多出很多操縱女方身體及行為的權力等)。

壞男人能做到的,好男人為什麼做不到呢?

對於好男人,你是他生命中的重要組成部分,他對你的過去,現在,未來都在意。
而壞男人更能容忍你的缺點,因為他只需要容忍幾天,一兩個月;而好男人卻要計劃一輩子的前景。
但是女人往往對好男人努力為她所做的事認為理所當然,不屑一顧,所以好男人要變壞,才會得到女孩子的青睞。 。 。很認同!

Friday, January 14, 2011

[Brief] 2011 Jan 13th Digi Kpop Party!!!


2011 Digi Live Kpop Party was held yesterday night in Malaysia, Stadium Negara.
The guess for that night is G.NA, 4 Minute, Beast.
On that night, the whole stadium full of crowd. It is a wonderful and memorable night for all of the Cube Ent. fans there. I was there too that night, enjoy the atmosphere of the party.

First of all, G.Na stand out to perform first with her song, "I'll back off if you leave better".
Totally awesome! the crowd shout and scream with all their powers. 
Soon the song finish, she introduce herself with her fluent English with the MC. 
She performed "Super Solo" for her last song as for her ending.

After that, 4 Minute lift up in the middle of the stage and start performing with their "HUH" song.
All of the male 4nia get excited with their performance and jumping together with them. 
The crown seem can't control themselves and keep outing shouting and screaming to cheer their bias.
4 Minute performed "I My Me Mine" right after "HUH" was finished.
After the song, they had a little chat with the MC and start their next song "HighLight"!
After that, they asked the crowd to sing the chorus together with them in "Hot Issue".
Lastly, they ended with "Muzik".
In the middle of "Muzik", Hyuna lifted off her shirt a little bit and bring the crowd to faint with her beauty body. She lifted up twice! ^^

Here come BEAST! The whole crowd release their passion and scream for their idol!
SO BEAST!!! They started their performed with "Special" and finish second song with "Zoom/Breath".
The performance are god damn nice and all of them are so cool and handsome there.
It is sad for GiKwang's fans that he didn't attend for the Kpop party.
Nevertheless, straight after the small chat with the MC they started their next song, "Shock" with surround fans screaming bass. 
Right after the song, Doojoon spoke with his cute and starter English 

"GiKwang is not here.""He miss you very much!""But you don't miss him!"

Everyone burst out laugh and cheer by screaming.
So, they started "Beautiful". In the middle of the next song "Oasis", Yoseob sing infront of the camera with his face only, he acted cute infront of it when singing his part. Yoseob's fans totally out raging.

Everyone of us shouted for Encore right after they say thank you and run back to the back of the stage.
Doojoon suddenly ran out and they sang "V.I.U (very important you)" for their encore together with others members.
He took out his jacket and everyone out of rage, the scream covering the music and their singing.

In the end, they ended their stage and MC with 4 Minute and G.NA came out to say good bye.
It is a memorable memories for the fans (b2uty, 4nia, royalgna). 
Beast, 4Minute, GNA will not forget the passion of the fans in Malaysia.
It was a success performed and thank to all of them that coming to Malaysia.
Hope they will come to Malaysia again next time.

Zzang!!!

Photo Source: Yaw@facebook, Digi Youth@facebook, Shine
Written by: Shine@Ksodanews

2011 Jan 13th Digi Kpop Party!!!


OMO!!! I and my friends were there yesterday night =D

Yaw, Lek, Fei, Yuan

we bought the gold ticket and lots of other merchandises outside of the stadium
totally a memorable night for us
while they were performing, we feels like watching 3D live 1080p quality video
haha...
anyway, no regret for that night!
totally worth it alots.


G.NA was the one who performed first!
she looks different compared to the picture
she is prettier in reality rather than those pictures.
wen la~


HUH!
yes!!! 4 minute!!
omo~ all of them are so pretty XD
especially Hyuna, who keep making mistake!
but is cute!!! haha~ too cute hehe

SO BEAST!
totally awesome man..
the whole crowd yell and scream all the way~
totally the screaming bass surrounded me ><
so sad.. GiKwang didnt attend for the party

One of the part Yoseob stand infront of the camera and sing infront of it..
so cute sia
haha!!! jinjia kyeota!!
lmao!

after that, we bought out merchandises~

i bought the beast signature album ~.~
haha!!!
cool!!.. all of us bought 4minute diamond.. and after i checked the price on the internet..
guess what? it is so damn worth it and cheaper on the net!
haha!!

totally sad.. after finish the performance..
miss them lots!!
TT






CNBLUE’s Jung Yonghwa releases “For First-Time Lovers”


CNBLUE’s Jung Yonghwa released a special digital rearrangement of the ‘Banmal Song‘ that was created by him and his ‘wife’, SNSD’s Seohyun, on MBC’s “We Got Married.”
Re-titled to “For First-Time Lovers (Subtitle: ‘Banmal Song’),” the track was released on January 14th and features lovely lyrics expressing Yonghwa’s message for first-time lovers in helping them get closer.  The rearranged version has an easy-to-follow melody with a light acoustic sound.
The ‘Banmal Song’ itself has been attracting wide popularity ever since the couple composed it as a UCC mission.  It has received over two million views since it was uploaded on YouTube, and various parodies have also emerged.
Check it out below:


Source + Photos: Newsen via Daum
Credit: VITALSIGN@allkpop

Wednesday, January 12, 2011

TVXQ’s Yunho receives IV treatments to keep up with schedule


TVXQ has just kicked off their comeback activities, and as expected, their schedule is full to the bursting point. To stay on top of his numerous activities, it’s been revealed that Yunho has been receiving IV shots.
Yunho mentioned before that he had a fever, which was why he wasn’t able to perform 100%. He’s reported more than once that he was suffering from a cold that affected his throat and nose, and it’s gotten to the point where it’s difficult for him to even speak.  Despite it all, Yunho impressed his staff members by performing live for the majority of their comeback.
On top of his musical activities, he’s also begun filming for his drama, “Poseidon“.
His dedication and drive demonstrates that Yunho has returned to his ‘rookie mindset’, as he wants to throw in 300% of his efforts into his work, despite his poor condition.
Take care of yourself, Yunho!
Source + Photos: Newsen via Daum
Credit: VITALSIGN@Allkpop